Plus–sized model, blogger and best selling author Tess Holliday has blasted United Airlines after she claimed she endured a shocking and humiliating on-board encounter with a flight attendant.

Holliday, 40, who has long spoken out against fatphobia and advocated for body positivity, posted a string of TikTok‘s on October 19, 2025, detailing what she claimed were a shocking series of events.

The model claimed that the incident occurred on a United Airlines flight as she was returning home with her nine-year-old son Bowie from Tampa, Floridato Los Angeles, California.

Holliday explained that when turning to exit the bathroom midflight, she accidentally hit the attendant call button.

A male attendant knocked to check on her, and at first, the exchange seemed harmless, as they joked back and forth about the small size of the bathroom.

However, Holliday claimed that the conversation swiftly turned tense.

Holliday alleged that the flight attendant then told her a story about his sister, who he described as ‘very, very, very large,’ before adding that they were ‘probably’ the same size.

He allegedly told her that his sister recently flew on United and that the passenger next to her ‘didn’t like that she was large’ and filed a complaint with the airline.

According to Holliday, the man then said that he felt like she ‘needed to lose weight.’

‘He (also said) that he saw I was traveling with my child and if I cared about my child I would do something, that I would lose weight,’ Holliday alleged.

The Daily Mail has reached out to United Airlines, who declined to comment.

Holliday recalled trying to remain polite so as not to antagonize the situation further.

Holliday said the attendant seemed to be naive to any offense he caused, as she claimed he then started to talk about his wife, who he said ‘weighs less than 100 pounds’ because she ‘doesn’t eat the processed c**p.’

‘I didn’t really know what to say,’ Holliday continued. ‘Everyone’s like, “You should have said or done this.” I was trying to be polite because I’m traveling with my child.’

The flight attendant then allegedly told her that her ‘main issue is in her belly region’ and described how belly fat could be a ‘killer.’

‘You don’t say things like that to people,’ she scathed. ‘He said a myriad of other things, the conversation lasted entirely too long.’

But it didn’t end there, according to Holliday, because she claimed the same airline worker later came around to ask if anyone wanted snacks and made a comment this time to her son that she felt was strange.

She alleged he offered her son some gummies and said ‘it would keep him from being tempted.’

The TikTok story time garnered massive amounts of media attention, as many viewers flocked to Holliday’s comment section to express their sympathies at her experience and give their thanks for Halliday’s continuing presence as a spokesperson for the plus sized community.

Others expressed their disbelief that a flight attendant made such personal remarks.

A fellow flight attendant commented, ‘This is INSANE… the way he just kept going?!’

‘I’m so sorry! No one should be made to feel like this on a plane,’ said another user.

‘Girl this is completely unacceptable. Don’t for a second think anyone has a right to speak to you this way,’ someone else chimed in.

Others defended the flight attendant. One person noted that his comments seemed to have come from ‘genuine concern,’ but added that it wasn’t the right place to make them.

‘He was trying to save your life,’ pointed out a different user.

‘Lowkey, I wish someone were bold enough to risk hurting my feelings and say this to my face,’ admitted someone else.

When asked how she was going to handle the situation, Holliday addressed this via a comment on the post saying she had requested for the attendant not to be fired but instead, asked for the employee to be given sensitivity training and referred them to NAAFA.

This alleged situation signals a larger ongoing debate evoked by recent updates to airline policies that state overweight passengers have to now purchase a full priced second seat where previously it had no additional costs.

Southwest airlines recently adapted this policy and announced this will be administered starting in 2026.

Other airlines such as United, American Airlines and Spirit Airlines already have existing requirements for those that fall under the plus-sized category, asking customers to purchase a second seat if their arm rests cannot comfortably go down or if they are noticeably encroaching on others space.