Psychologist Reveals The 7 Relationship Archetypes We ALL Fall Into And What They Mean For Your Love Life – So, Take The Test To Find Out If YOU Are A Wounded Warrior, Narcissist Or Hopeless Romantic

A psychologist has revealed the seven ‘relationship archetypes’ that we all fall into and what they mean for your love life – as well as how to discover which one yours is.

After helping people with their relationships for over 30 years, Dr Carmen Harra, American author of Committed: Finding Love And Loyalty Through The Seven Archetypes, realised that there were certain ‘falling-in-love’ styles.

‘In listening to tens of thousands of cases over time, something interesting happened: I noticed that the same types of people kept popping up – people unrelated to each other but with strikingly similar qualities (when it came to love),’ the counsellor told the Daily Mail.

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She soon proposed seven distinct love types that would explain people’s personalities in relationships – including the ‘wounded warrior’, ‘narcissist’, ‘free spirit’ and ‘hopeless romantic’.

Dr Carmen said: ‘Each of the seven archetypes possesses strengths and weaknesses, and each is capable of upholding a relationship so long as they are willing to work on themselves.

‘Some archetypes adapt to commitment easily than others because they possess a keener sense of dedication. Others are emotionally resistant or have tougher psychological barriers to overcome before they can uphold a healthy relationship.

‘Each archetype must learn certain values in order to cultivate a relationship that’s fulfilling for both partners,’ insisted the psychologist.‘The goal is to escape the boundaries of one archetype and become as flexible as possible in our lives and our romances.’

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Answer the following questions in Dr Carmen’s quiz to discover your relationship archetype and understand how it impacts your romances:

Now find out what your answers mean…

If you answered mostly As, you’re an Independent.

Dr Carmen said: ‘The Independent is afraid of losing themselves to their partner.Of the seven archetypes, they are the most reluctant to enter a relationship because they fear a partner will compromise their cherished freedom.

‘The Independent is defined by their need to be on their own, and this becomes true not only in their love relationships but many other areas of their life.

‘They don’t look to what others are doing; they forge their own path and operate on stubbornness, detachment and disinterest. But they are also reliable and responsible.’

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Compatibility with the Independent:

Dr Carmen said the Independent is most compatible with another Independent and with the Workaholic. She explained: ‘A Mr. and Mrs. Independent make a great match; each will go about his or her business and neither will suffocate the other.

‘Meanwhile, the Workaholic will be so wrapped up in their own work that they’ll give the Independent all the space they need.

‘But the Independent is least compatible with the Wounded Warrior and the Introvert. They won’t be able to dedicate themselves to the task of helping the Wounded Warrior heal. And as the Independent is generally extroverted, they won’t take the time to dissect the inner complexities of an Introvert.’

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If you answered mostly Bs, you’re an Introvert.

Dr Carmen said: ‘The Introvert is emotionally self-sufficient; they recharge by spending time alone. But they struggle with intimacy.

‘To be in a committed relationship, the Introvert needs to feel comfortable enough to open themselves up to their partner.

‘At their worst, the Introvert operates on isolation, overthinking and reservation. At their best, they are creative and confident.’

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Compatibility with the Introvert:

‘The Introvert is most compatible with another Introvert and with the Hopeless Romantic,’ revealed the expert. ‘Two Introverts won’t force each other to do anything uncomfortable and will appreciate each other’s subtlety.

‘The Hopeless Romantic, meanwhile, will give the Introvert whatever he or she needs. But there won’t be much communication between an Introvert and an Independent because neither will run after the other.

‘An Introvert and a Wounded Warrior won’t know what to do for each other either because both of these archetypes hide the profound parts of themselves.’

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If you answered mostly Cs, you’re a Hopeless Romantic.

‘To the Hopeless Romantic, life is love and love is life,’ said Dr Carmen. ‘The Hopeless Romantic is an idealist of epic proportions. They wholeheartedly believe in love but are a bit aimless and tactless.

‘A dreamer and not a doer, the Hopeless Romantic yearns for commitment but doesn’t know how to approach a relationship in a rational and clear-sighted way. They fall in love easily, and often with unsuitable people.

‘In truth, they may be in love with the idea of love than with the person in front of them. Because they idealise love, they are not realistic about the messiness that relationships bring.’

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Compatibility with the Hopeless Romantic:

Dr Carmen said: ‘The Hopeless Romantic is most compatible with the Wounded Warrior. It is in the nature of Hopeless Romantics to help, heal, and have compassion for their partners, which is what Wounded Warriors need to overcome their traumas.

‘A Hopeless Romantic can also fare well with an Introvert; their sincerity and enthusiasm will inspire an Introvert to open up. The Hopeless Romantic is least compatible with the Independent.’

If you answered mostly Ds, you’re a Workaholic.

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Dr Carmen said: ‘The Workaholic’s career is inseparable from their relationships.The Workaholic has built their life around work. In fact, they chose their career long before they chose their significant other.

‘The Workaholic will let go of the partner who’s not contributing to their growth in the same way they’ll fire an employee who’s not performing up to their expectations.’

Compatibility with the Workaholic:

Dr Carmen said: ‘The Workaholic is most compatible with the Workaholic and the Independent. Two Workaholics work well because they’ll keep busy in their own separate worlds but still be able to come home to a partner who loves them.

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‘Neither the Independent nor the Workaholic will bother each other, which can also work out.

‘The Workaholic is least compatible with the Wounded Warrior and the Narcissist. The Workaholic doesn’t have the time or patience to help the Wounded Warrior heal, and they certainly won’t entertain the Narcissist’s pretentiousness.’

If you answered mostly Es, you’re a Free Spirit.

Dr Carmen said: ‘This archetype is undecided in all that they do: from relationships to work to hobbies, the Free Spirit has trouble sticking to commitment in multiple aspects of their life.

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‘This person may claim they want to have a relationship but abandons ship when things get serious.

‘The Free Spirit contends with the notion of commitment itself. Unlike the Independent, who’s afraid of losing themselves to a partner, the Free Spirit simply doesn’t know what they want.’

Compatibility with the Free Spirit:

Dr Carmen said: ‘It’s tricky to place the Free Spirit on a scale of compatibility and decide with which archetype they fit best because indecisiveness can ruin a relationship with even the most complaisant partner.

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‘At the end of the day, the Free Spirit is most compatible with the Hopeless Romantic, who believes them enough to guide the Free Spirit to finding their authentic self.

‘The Free Spirit has little future with an Independent, as both partners will live in separate worlds and quickly go their separate ways.’

If you answered mostly Fs, you’re a Wounded Warrior:

Dr Carmen said: ‘The Wounded Warrior’s past constantly intrudes into their present. Because they’ve been wounded (possibly early in life), the Wounded Warrior experiences a disconnection between the outside and the inside: the smile they wear doesn’t match the turmoil they feel within.

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‘The Wounded Warrior is dealing with demons that they not only don’t address but willfully suppresses.

‘They try to hide or mask their trauma, often unsuccessfully, until it suddenly boils to the surface. Before they can commit, the Wounded Warrior must gently explore and heal their pain.’

Compatibility with the Wounded Warrior:

‘The Wounded Warrior is most compatible with the Hopeless Romantic. The Hopeless Romantic has sympathy for the Wounded Warrior and enough patience to take them by the hand through the healing process.

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‘The Wounded Warrior is least compatible with his own archetype, the Narcissist, the Independent, and the Free Spirit. Two wounded partners won’t motivate each other to make emotional progress.

‘The Wounded Warrior will think the Narcissist is trying to hurt them and will misconstrue the Independent’s lack of communication as something personal.

‘The Free Spirit will promise the Wounded Warrior dedication but might leave them in the middle of the journey, which is not an experience this already delicate archetype can afford to go through.’

If you answered mostly Gs, you’re a Narcissist:

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Dr Carmen said: ‘The Narcissist grapples with their ego, which threatens to overtake their personality. Their selfish inclinations preclude them from bonding fully with others, which can make them seem emotionally superficial and cause serious relationship problems.

‘The Narcissist may have trouble paying enough attention to their partner or giving them what they need. But if these tendencies are mitigated, the Narcissist can commit to a relationship.’

Compatibility with the Narcissist:

Dr Carmen said: ‘The Narcissist is most compatible with the Hopeless Romantic. Two Narcissists can also feed off of each other’s egos, especially if one is grandiose and the other is vulnerable.

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‘The Narcissist will love the Hopeless Romantic’s support and sacrifice but may also take advantage if their self-obsession isn’t under control.

‘The Narcissist is least compatible with the Independent and the Workaholic. The Narcissist won’t think it’s worth it to put so much effort into making the Independent commit, and they won’t appreciate the fact that the Workaholic can’t spoil them with unlimited time and affection.’